The Red Flags: The Truth About Love, Trauma, and the Lies Your Therapist Didn’t Warn You About

The Red Flags is a fearless, revolutionary guide that cuts through the fluff of traditional therapy to expose the toxic patterns destroying your love life—so you can reclaim your emotional freedom.

Are you tired of toxic relationships that leave you drained and confused? Ever wondered why hot girls are crazy or how to spot a gold digger?

The Red Flags cuts through the clichés and dives deep into the hidden dangers that traditional therapy often misses. From low self-esteem and porn addiction to coparenting challenges, daddy issues, and the infamous nice-guy syndrome, Sadia Khan reveals the real reasons why some relationships never work.

But it’s not just about spotting red flags—Sadia also reveals the signs of a truly healthy, supportive relationship. You’ll learn exactly what to look for at every stage of love: how women tend to fall in love in distinct emotional phases and how men’s attachment and commitment develop differently. Understanding these green flags empowers you to build relationships where both partners grow together, stay committed, and thrive emotionally.

The Red Flags breaks down the behaviors and mindsets that build lasting trust, intimacy, and respect—from early attraction to long-term partnership—so you can recognize love that’s real and dodge “love” that’s not.